Lord, I remember holding them in my arms, 

nurturing them, feeding them, caring for their every need. 

We were so close, our lives woven together, 

constant and uninterrupted.

As they grew, our attachment changed. 

They became their own person, 

and we learned new ways of relating. 

It felt good at first…

But now I feel the distance, 

and I do not know what to do. 

I feel uncertain and wonder if I have done something wrong.

You see both of us clearly. 

You know what is in their heart, even what I cannot see.

If they need space or are just working through something 

I do not understand, help me respond with wisdom.

Teach me to be patient. 

Keep me from grasping for control out of fear. 

Show me how to love them in this season 

with a presence that is steady, gentle, and safe.

Give me wisdom to know when to reach out and when to be still. 

If there is anything I need to repair, make it clear to me. 

I need a heart that listens without defensiveness. 

Shape our relationship into something mature and life-giving, 

not what it used to be, but what it is meant to be. 

A relationship marked by trust, respect, and genuine love.

Hold them as they grow, and hold me as I learn to let them. 

Amen.